vendredi 4 mars 2011

Issues That Will Crop Up When Two Families Merge

By Cynthia Trueblood


After a new marriage a family with a blended relationship is formed. The earlier kids are included in this newly created family called as the blended family. Various compositions of the blended families are known and these families differ in the sense that the children belong to the mother or the father.

It is not easy for any child to replace the parent as a result of some family breakage. Similarly, for the step parents, it is not so easy to give the attention and care to the children as their own parents had given them in the past.

If after the marriage, new children are born, the situation becomes very difficult to control.

The children are badly affected and their personality growth is halted. They become angry and upset at times. The life becomes highly competitive among the siblings in a blended family.

It is the sole responsibility of the parents to diffuse the tension among the siblings and work together to minimize the complexities in their relationship. This is very necessary in order to have a good happy family. The below mentioned points will further assist you if you are having these issues:

For better and happier family life, the parents should play their role. They should give some separate time o each of the children to have a more effective and stronger relationship.

If you are experiencing some problems in your family life after the second marriage then you should try to realize the children tat this is a fact and they will have to accept it in a positive sense. Both of you should try to engage them in a family gathering and dine out at the weekends to develop mutual interest in the siblings.

The most effective way to diffuse the tense situations is to have a get together and try to fix the issues in a positive manner. They will finally realize about the situation they are facing and this will be a very motivational talk to make them resolve the tensions in their mind.




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