Proposing to your long term girlfriend isn't as easy as it sounds. Many people have a very hard time actually getting the courage to do so. Even after years of relationship, you can never be sure of her answer. Getting a no could really mess up your future and can also crush your confidence. You may worry about things such as the cheap ring you've bought off the self of a local jeweler, and she may have entirely different ideas. But, of course, a little bit of creativity almost always works wonders in eliciting an affirmative reply.
You could start with choosing the correct setting to ask the question you have been waiting to. Never forget that the correct time and place are of utmost importance. Setting matters quite a bit.
Perhaps there was a secluded corner on the beach where you made love the first time. Why not take her there and go down on your knees and pop up the question? She's more likely to say "Yes," when bombarded with sweet, exciting memories.
Or perhaps you could make it day filled with activities she loves really to do - such as boating or paragliding. Afterwards, you can causally produce the ring from your pocket and pop up the question over a can of beer.
Women like sensitive men. So why not bring out the romantic in you by showing her your sensitive side by giving her the kind of attention that she craves for?
If there is a painter, a musician or an actor she really likes, take her to a function where she can actually meet them. Encourage her to take their autographs on her notebook, hand or cheek. That is sure to brighten up her day.
You could even create the magic at home if that is what you think will work. Fill every room with delightful surprises and give her a surprise that's sure to bowl her over. That way she is also in a comfortable setting and not intimidated by anything.
In a room filled with confetti you could stick hand-written 'I Love You' posters on the refrigerator, with your proposal at the bottom? It's not what you do, but how you it that really makes the difference. If you stick to what you have confidence in, as well as ask the question with confidence, chances are thinks will work out just the way you wish.
You could start with choosing the correct setting to ask the question you have been waiting to. Never forget that the correct time and place are of utmost importance. Setting matters quite a bit.
Perhaps there was a secluded corner on the beach where you made love the first time. Why not take her there and go down on your knees and pop up the question? She's more likely to say "Yes," when bombarded with sweet, exciting memories.
Or perhaps you could make it day filled with activities she loves really to do - such as boating or paragliding. Afterwards, you can causally produce the ring from your pocket and pop up the question over a can of beer.
Women like sensitive men. So why not bring out the romantic in you by showing her your sensitive side by giving her the kind of attention that she craves for?
If there is a painter, a musician or an actor she really likes, take her to a function where she can actually meet them. Encourage her to take their autographs on her notebook, hand or cheek. That is sure to brighten up her day.
You could even create the magic at home if that is what you think will work. Fill every room with delightful surprises and give her a surprise that's sure to bowl her over. That way she is also in a comfortable setting and not intimidated by anything.
In a room filled with confetti you could stick hand-written 'I Love You' posters on the refrigerator, with your proposal at the bottom? It's not what you do, but how you it that really makes the difference. If you stick to what you have confidence in, as well as ask the question with confidence, chances are thinks will work out just the way you wish.
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