jeudi 3 février 2011

Anger Management Techniques You Can Use To Deal With Your Day

By Bob McKinney


Sometimes it feels like our anger is as complicated as the world we live in. Everybody can benefit from learning some anger management techniques and should feel free to do so without feeling like they are being judged. Everyone gets angry once in a while so we firmly believe that learning techniques to deal with it can be beneficial. Trying to eliminate anger is pointless because it can't be done; these techniques teach you how to deal with situations that make you mad. You learn to directly intervene before anger gets the better of you by using different strategies and techniques to deal with it. This article will go over a few of the different anger management techniques that can help you.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation, or PMR, is an approach that actively works for achieving whole-body muscular relaxation. This isn't all that hard to do and you can make use of PMR at any point in your day when you have a few minutes. You might already know this technique. It involves simply tensing up a group of muscles for around ten seconds or so and then letting that group relax. Don't get too intense with your tension. You simply start at your feet, and then you (progressively) work all the way up to your facial muscles. PMR probably doesn't sound like a great method for dealing with anger but that's a misnomer.

A major part of good anger management deals with those first few moments when something starts to make you mad. The only person who can actively do anything real to manage an outburst of anger is you. So you can begin the process of turning things around in your life by becoming more aware of your mind and body. What you want to do is learn to sense the changes in your mind and body. Try thinking about something that stresses or angers you and pay attention to what happens physically. Your muscles will begin to tense, and there will be physiological changes such as increased heart rate.

The simple truth is that we all have some things in our lives that are harder to cope with than others. For some, and maybe you, the best course of action is counseling with a trained professional such as a psychologist or other health professional. It is possible that a lot of issues play into anger management problems like personal loss, feeling depressed, chronic frustrations issues with coping, etc.

Anger management techniques are unique in lots of ways and they can be very helpful when you use them the way they are supposed to be used. When you look at lots of them you will see that they are intended for changes that involve developing healthy habits. Forming new, healthy, and positive habits can be a challenge for many people, if not most. You need to start slow, keep your patience and try not to be too difficult on yourself if you mess up once in a while. Just keep taking positive action each day.




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