mardi 15 février 2011

Mail-Order Brides Evolved Into Our Current Web Dating

By Christine F. Kapp


History has shown that one of the most distinctive social aspects of the human race is the need to love and be loved. In fact, in western times, men were notorious for ordering mail-order-brides through the pony express. No matter how slow and how unpredictable the results would be, men were willing to gamble their future just to take a chance at love.

With minimum communication, there was definitely an uncertainty in the success of the match. Fortunately for people of this age, Internet dating already exists. In an online dating website, people have all kinds of communication channels available at their finger tips and these facilities are helpful in maximizing the success of the relationship.

In western times, men elbowed each other to sign-up for a mail-order bride despite the uncertainty of the success of the match. With towns in short supply of women, it was no wonder men had to order a mate over the mail.

While a person would seem attractive in the letters they wrote, unhappy couples would find that upon arrival, great hand-writing did not amount to great looks, as cynical as that sounds.

It's likely that there were successful mail-order bride matches, obviously. But given the amount of communication, or lack of it, before the couple got hitched, you can expect that many matches went wrong. A lot of people probably went into the marriage expecting something totally different.

The great thing about the Internet age is that it has lowered the chances of mismatches. By providing services such as chatting, email, and even webcam facilities, would-be couples have only themselves to blame if things do not work out as expected.

These days, people are more likely to be writing to not just one but many potential matches. This gives them the freedom to choose who might really be compatible and minimize their chances of a mismatch.

Most Internet dating websites are businesses that require membership fees. There are a few that exist for free but require payment if additional premium services are desired.




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