During the process of a break up, you are bound to be in a sensitive state and delicate decision making should probably be avoided. Things won't be very easy and it may be a little difficult to get your ex back if this is what you decide to do.
It's okay to make mistakes because we all do. You need to make sure you are not making the wrong mistakes at this point.
Two major mistakes that are sometimes made after a break up: text message overload and drunk calling. They have the potential to be embarrassing and make matters worse. You will more than likely say things that shouldn't be said.
1. Text bombing: is when you text and call an extreme amount. If you are doing this with moderation, it's not so bad.
Think about how many texts and or calls that was on your behalf over a certain amount of time. They can really add up can't they? Your intentions may be good but you are the only one who comes out looking crazy and making the tension a lot worse between you and your ex.
2. Texting or calling when drunk: be concerned with what you are actually saying during these kinds of calls, not just the fact that you are calling. This will occur after drinking and feeling down about your breakup.
In your mind, you are pouring your heart out in hopes of getting your ex back, but in their eyes, you come off as weak, pathetic and that makes them glad the relationship ended in the first place.
So with all that being said, it's best to avoid both of these huge wrong mistakes. Even if you were to catch yourself in the midst of doing this then change your mind will save you from feeling embarrassed the next day.
It's okay to make mistakes because we all do. You need to make sure you are not making the wrong mistakes at this point.
Two major mistakes that are sometimes made after a break up: text message overload and drunk calling. They have the potential to be embarrassing and make matters worse. You will more than likely say things that shouldn't be said.
1. Text bombing: is when you text and call an extreme amount. If you are doing this with moderation, it's not so bad.
Think about how many texts and or calls that was on your behalf over a certain amount of time. They can really add up can't they? Your intentions may be good but you are the only one who comes out looking crazy and making the tension a lot worse between you and your ex.
2. Texting or calling when drunk: be concerned with what you are actually saying during these kinds of calls, not just the fact that you are calling. This will occur after drinking and feeling down about your breakup.
In your mind, you are pouring your heart out in hopes of getting your ex back, but in their eyes, you come off as weak, pathetic and that makes them glad the relationship ended in the first place.
So with all that being said, it's best to avoid both of these huge wrong mistakes. Even if you were to catch yourself in the midst of doing this then change your mind will save you from feeling embarrassed the next day.
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